Start Over
Reconnect After a Rough Patch: Questions for Couples
Start Over
Gottman-informed questions for rebuilding trust and closeness after a rough patch.
Free to play — no account neededdeep comfortNo scorekeeping
Start Over
Guess It: what's the repair ritual - a phrase, a gesture - you think we secretly already have?
How to play
Pick your comfort level
Real vulnerability, worth sitting with. Dial it up any time.
Take turns reading the prompt
One card, one question, out loud — Partner 1, then Partner 2.
Answer honestly, then pass it back
Sit with the answers before you move on. There's no rush, and no scoring.
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Making Up After a Fight Questions
Sixteen questions about how you argue, apologize, and come back together - for couples who want to fight better, not less.
PlayFrequently asked questions
Yes — playing Start Over needs a free account, which starts a 3-day free trial (card required, cancel anytime). One of you signs up and you play together from there, in person or on a call.