The First Read

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All 48 questions in this game

1. 01What's a story about your childhood that explains a lot about who you are now?
2. 02What's a green flag you look for that nobody else seems to notice?
3. 03This or That: would you rather I show up ten minutes early and nervous, or fashionably late and chill?
4. 04What's a red flag you've learned to spot from a mile away?
5. 05What's the most spontaneous thing you've ever done that still makes you smile thinking about it?
6. 06What's a compliment you've never gotten but secretly want?
7. 07What's the tell that gives away when you actually like someone?
8. 08Fill in the blank: "I know I trust someone when ___."
9. 09What's something you're weirdly great at that has nothing to do with your job?
10. 10This or That: text back in five minutes, or take three hours and mean it?
12. 11What's a rule you live by that most people would think is ridiculous?
13. 12What's the difference between someone who's exciting and someone you'd actually trust?
14. 13What's a fear about dating you'd never admit unless someone asked directly?
15. 14Fill in the blank: "I feel most like myself when ___."
16. 15What's the most honest answer you can give to "what are you actually looking for"?
17. 16If your friends had to describe you in one sentence, no filter, what would they say?
18. 17What's the last risk you took that you're genuinely glad you took?
19. 18Fill in the blank: "A perfect Sunday for me looks like ___."
20. 19What's a "type" you used to have that you've completely outgrown?
21. 20Fill in the blank: "I'd know I really liked someone if I caught myself ___."
22. 21This or That: would you rather have a plan for tonight, or make it up as we go?
23. 22What's the kindest way someone has ever turned you down?
24. 23Fill in the blank: "People are surprised to find out I ___."
25. 24If your love life were a headline, what would today's read?
26. 25What's something you do when you're nervous that you wish you didn't?
27. 26Fill in the blank: "I feel safest with someone new when ___."
28. 27This or That: would you rather know if someone's into you immediately, or enjoy the guessing?
29. 28What's a question you wish more people asked instead of small talk?
30. 29What's something you're proud of that took years, not days?
31. 30Fill in the blank: "The last time I surprised myself was ___."
32. 31This or That: would you rather a partner who challenges you, or one who's endlessly easy?
33. 32What's a lesson from your parents' relationship you carry with you, good or bad?
34. 33What's something people get wrong about you in the first five minutes?
35. 34What's the most attractive thing someone can do in an argument?
36. 35What's a hobby you'd want to drag someone else into, given the chance?
37. 36This or That: would you rather text all day, or have one great call?
38. 37What's something small that would make you feel chosen, on a first date?
39. 38What's a fear about vulnerability you're quietly working on?
40. 39Fill in the blank: "A green flag nobody talks about enough is ___."
41. 40This or That: would you rather have chemistry now, or compatibility later?
42. 41What's the difference between infatuation and something real, in your experience?
43. 42If your dating profile had a warning label, what would it say?
44. 43Fill in the blank: "I want someone who ___."
45. 44This or That: would you rather a partner who's your best friend first, or swept you off your feet first?
46. 45What's a moment you knew, looking back, that a past relationship wasn't right?
47. 46Fill in the blank: "I'm at my best when ___."
48. 47What's something you want to build, not just find, in a relationship?
49. 48What's one thing you'd want me to know about you, that we haven't gotten to yet?

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