Wedding Questions for Couples
Before the "I Do"
The values and future-planning conversations worth having before you're engaged, not after.
Fill in the blank: "The version of 'us' I'm scared marriage might create is ___."
What is Before the "I Do"?
Before the "I Do" is a set of wedding questions for couples—values, expectations, and future-planning conversations worth having before you're engaged, not after.
Instead of assuming you're aligned because you love each other, the prompts get specific about money, kids, career, and the practical stuff that actually determines whether a marriage works.
It has 103 of them, one of Love Daring's free couple games, free to play in full with no account needed.
How to play
Nothing to dial down here
Every prompt is tagged medium—there's nothing to pick, just start working through them.
Take turns reading the prompt
One card, one question, out loud—Partner 1, then Partner 2.
Answer honestly, then pass it back
Sit with the answers before you move on. There's no rush, and no scoring.
Ready to give it a try?
Looking for couple games to play before you're engaged? Start Before the "I Do" whenever you're both ready.
When to use these questions
Marriage has come up, even casually
Better to have this conversation now than to assume you're aligned and find out later.
You want to talk about money, kids, or career before it's urgent
The prompts get specific about exactly this—not vague values talk.
You're already engaged and want to make sure you've covered everything
103 prompts is enough to catch what a shorter list would miss.
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Frequently asked questions
No—jump straight in, no account needed. One of you opens Before the "I Do" and you play together from there, in person or on a call.
Ready to talk before the "I do"?
One of Love Daring's couple games to play together—103 questions, free to play, no account needed.
Play Before the "I Do"