Relationship Check-In Questions for Couples
Relationship Health Check
See where you stand on communication, trust, money, and intimacy—before it becomes a bigger conversation.
When we disagree, does it usually go somewhere, or does it just repeat?
What is Relationship Health Check?
Relationship Health Check is an honest check-in across communication, trust, money, and intimacy—built to see where you stand before something turns into a bigger conversation.
Instead of waiting for a problem to force the conversation, the prompts walk through the areas that quietly make or break a relationship, one at a time.
It has 31 of them, one of Love Daring's free couple games, free to play in full with no account needed.
How to play
There's no dial to turn
Every prompt here is tagged medium—there's nothing to pick, just start the check-in.
Take turns reading the prompt
One card, one question, out loud—Partner 1, then Partner 2.
Answer honestly, then pass it back
Sit with the answers before you move on. There's no rush, and no scoring.
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When to use these questions
You want to catch a small issue before it becomes a big one
This deck exists for exactly that—a regular check-in instead of waiting for a crisis.
You're not sure where you actually stand on money or trust
The prompts walk through each area directly instead of leaving it vague.
It's been a while since you talked about anything but logistics
Use it to get back to real conversation, not just scheduling.
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All 31 questions in this game
- 01When we disagree, does it usually go somewhere, or does it just repeat?
- 02What's something you've stopped bringing up because it never seems to land?
- 03Do you feel heard when we argue, even if we don't agree?
- 04Is there a way I respond in conflict that shuts you down?
- 05Is there anything you've been less than fully honest about lately, even something small?
- 06Is there something you've been keeping to yourself because you didn't want to deal with my reaction?
- 07Do you trust me with the hard stuff, or just the easy stuff?
- 08What would make it easier to tell me something difficult?
- 09Do we actually agree on how we handle money, or have we just stopped talking about it?
- 10Is there a money habit of mine that quietly bothers you?
- 11Is there a financial conversation we've been avoiding?
- 12Does the division of everyday responsibilities feel fair to both of us, or just to one of us?
- 13Is there something you handle that you wish I'd notice more?
- 14Is there a task that's quietly become a sore spot?
- 15Does it feel like effort is roughly even, even if it looks different?
- 16Do you feel like you're actually a priority in my schedule, not just in theory?
- 17When was the last time you felt like I chose you over something else that mattered to me?
- 18What would "enough time together" actually look like right now?
- 19Does the physical and emotional closeness between us feel like enough, lately?
- 20Is there a kind of affection you wish you got more of, big or small?
- 21Has anything changed in how close we feel that we haven't talked about?
- 22What's gotten in the way, if anything has?
- 23Do you feel fully supported by me when it comes to family stuff?
- 24Do you still feel like we're building toward the same things?
- 25Has anything you want out of life shifted in a way we haven't really discussed?
- 26Is there a decision looming that we've been putting off?
- 27Do you feel like your goals have room in this relationship?
- 28Do you feel seen and appreciated for who you are day to day, not just for what you do?
- 29What's something about you that you don't think I notice enough?
- 30When you're struggling, do you feel like I actually show up for you?
- 31What's a small thing I could do more often that would mean a lot?
Frequently asked questions
No—jump straight in, no account needed. One of you opens Relationship Health Check and you play together from there, in person or on a call.
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