Making Up After A Fight Questions for Couples

16 questions to play together, right now, no sign-up required.

1. 01Fill in the blank: "When we argue, what I actually need is ___."
2. 02Fill in the blank: "The thing I'm proudest of in how we handle conflict is ___."
3. 03Fill in the blank: "After a fight, I need ___ before I can move on."
4. 04Guess It: what do you think I'd change about how we handle arguments?
5. 05What's the thing I do during an argument that you've already clocked as "my move"?
6. 06What's a way you'd want disagreements to end — fully resolved, or just calm enough?
7. 07What does "being on the same team" look like in a moment where our interests actually conflict?
8. 08What's something about your friendships that should never shrink for a relationship?
9. 09What's a value about honesty — even small lies — that's non-negotiable for you?
10. 10What's a boundary you've had to learn to set in relationships, the hard way?
12. 11What's a way you know the difference between compromise and quietly losing yourself?
13. 12What's a habit from a past relationship you're actively trying to unlearn?
14. 13This or That: fight it out in the moment, or take a walk and cool off first?
15. 14This or That: would you rather grow apart quietly, or fight loudly to stay close?
16. 15This or That: say "I love you" first and risk it, or wait to hear it first?
17. 16This or That: would you rather I chase you when you pull away, or give you space?