Vulnerability Questions For Couples for Couples
26 questions to play together, right now, no sign-up required.
- 01Fill in the blank: "Vulnerability scares me because ___."
- 02Fill in the blank: "The scariest part of loving someone this much is ___."
- 03Fill in the blank: "I'm scared that if you really knew me, you'd ___."
- 04Fill in the blank: "Something I've never said about my past is ___."
- 05Fill in the blank: "The bravest thing I've done in this relationship is ___."
- 06Fill in the blank: "I've never told anyone that I ___."
- 07Fill in the blank: "Something I'm still learning to say out loud is ___."
- 08Fill in the blank: "If I pull away, it usually means ___, not that I don't care."
- 09What's the thing I'm most insecure about that I've never said out loud?
- 10What's the one insecurity of mine you've picked up on that I've never named?
- 11Guess It: what's a fear about the future you think I haven't told you?
- 12Guess It: what's the fear I have about us that you've probably already guessed?
- 13What's my biggest fear about this relationship, that you've noticed but I haven't said?
- 14What's a story about my past you think shaped how I love you?
- 15What's a fear about this relationship you haven't said out loud yet?
- 16Is there something you're scared to want out loud?
- 17What's a fear about being "too much" or "not enough" that shows up in relationships for you?
- 18What's a fear about vulnerability you're actively working through, right now, with me?
- 19Why does "getting serious" with someone scare you, if it does?
- 20Is there a question you're scared I'll answer honestly?
- 21What's a fear you have about repeating your parents' relationship, specifically?
- 22What's a fear you have about becoming "too comfortable" too fast?
- 23What part of yourself are you still nervous to show me?
- 24What's something you're protecting right now, emotionally, and why?
- 25What's something you're scared to want, in case it doesn't happen?
- 26Tell me your insecurities upfront, or let me discover them slowly?