Vulnerability Questions For Couples for Couples

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1. 01Fill in the blank: "Vulnerability scares me because ___."
2. 02Fill in the blank: "The scariest part of loving someone this much is ___."
3. 03Fill in the blank: "I'm scared that if you really knew me, you'd ___."
4. 04Fill in the blank: "Something I've never said about my past is ___."
5. 05Fill in the blank: "The bravest thing I've done in this relationship is ___."
6. 06Fill in the blank: "I've never told anyone that I ___."
7. 07Fill in the blank: "Something I'm still learning to say out loud is ___."
8. 08Fill in the blank: "If I pull away, it usually means ___, not that I don't care."
9. 09What's the thing I'm most insecure about that I've never said out loud?
10. 10What's the one insecurity of mine you've picked up on that I've never named?
12. 11Guess It: what's a fear about the future you think I haven't told you?
13. 12Guess It: what's the fear I have about us that you've probably already guessed?
14. 13What's my biggest fear about this relationship, that you've noticed but I haven't said?
15. 14What's a story about my past you think shaped how I love you?
16. 15What's a fear about this relationship you haven't said out loud yet?
17. 16What's a fear about vulnerability you're actively working through, right now, with me?
18. 17Why does "getting serious" with someone scare you, if it does?
19. 18Is there a question you're scared I'll answer honestly?
20. 19What's a fear you have about repeating your parents' relationship, specifically?
21. 20What's a fear you have about becoming "too comfortable" too fast?
22. 21What part of yourself are you still nervous to show me?
23. 22What's something you're protecting right now, emotionally, and why?
24. 23What's something you're scared to want, in case it doesn't happen?
25. 24Tell me your insecurities upfront, or let me discover them slowly?