Should we take it together or separately?

Separately first, then compare. Where you agree confirms what's working; where you differ is usually the more interesting conversation.

What if we score low in an area?

That's the point of checking — a low score just means it's time to actually talk about it, not that something's wrong with your relationship.

How often should we take this?

Whenever it feels useful — after a rough patch, or just every few months as a regular check-in.

The health check itself is free. You get 3 days free to try the full game library it points you toward, then it's a paid subscription.

9-Area Check-In · Free 3-Day Trial

How’s your relationship, really?

An honest, 2-minute relationship checkup. Rate where things stand across 9 key areas, then get real questions for wherever needs a little attention.

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Then send it to your partner and compare notes — that’s where it gets interesting.

How it works

Four steps, two minutes

Rate 9 areas

One honest 1-5 rating per area — communication, trust, money, intimacy, and more.

Get your health score

See exactly which areas are running strong and which ones need a look.

See where to talk

Real follow-up questions for your lowest-scoring areas, not just a number.

Talk it through together

Take it separately, then compare — that's where the useful conversation starts.

9 areas we check

Everywhere a relationship actually lives

Not just “how’s it going” — the specific places couples quietly drift.

Communication & Conflict

Trust & Honesty

Money & Finances

Household Roles & Fairness

Time & Priorities

Intimacy & Affection

Family & In-Laws

Life Goals & Direction

Appreciation & Emotional Support

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Why this isn’t just another quiz

Built to start a real conversation

An honest reading, not a label

No archetype to land on — just a clear-eyed look at where things actually stand right now.

Comes with a next step

Every low score comes with real questions to ask each other, not just a score to stare at.

Take it as often as you like

Relationships change. Retake it in a month and see what moved.

FAQ

Questions, answered

No — it's a quick, honest check-in for the two of you, not a diagnostic tool. Think temperature check, not therapy.

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Find your Relationship Health Score

9 quick ratings, one tap each — for an honest read, not a clinical assessment.

Ready for your check-in?

9 quick ratings, one tap each. Answer honestly — this is for you two, not a test you can fail.

2 minutes9 areasYour own honest score

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